(Improve your Sex Life Series Article #4)
Peri, menopause, and post-menopause dating is quite challenging. Especially if you read the many negative, ageist articles out there that conclude women who are aging are not desirable.
The level of ageism is quite astounding and can be a blow to women struggling with self-esteem issues. The opinion of some members of society seems to be that women of a certain age should just get a pet and take care of their grandchildren instead of joining the dating pool.
Goddesses you are always worthy of love, companionship, partnership and a union. Do not let society dictate how you should view dating. You do not need to lower your standards or commit to relationships that are not beneficial to you and your growth. Nor should you stay in relationships that are not conducive or beneficial to your growth, mental health and your wellbeing.
My advice to my fellow Goddesses is to do the work on you first, and you will attract the partner that best complements you.
Goddesses, I did not say your other half or someone who completes you.
I am saying someone who complements you can facilitate your growth and the growth of your relationship.
When we say we are looking for a partner who completes us, you are giving the impression to yourself and the person that only with them you are complete, and without them, you are incomplete.
My Goddesses, we do not give away our Goddess power; we need it to continue to grow and be a better version of ourselves.
You need to do the work on being complete, and I suggest you use this time to do the work on yourself. What you like? What do you enjoy doing? Ask yourself what is your purpose for the rest of your life? These are all questions to start you off in doing the work on yourself in attracting the partner who complements you.
If you like music, your partner will be your personal DJ. That is my analogy of finding a partner who complements you. I am not saying that you can not play your own music, but your partner will enhance your musical experience.
Once you have done the work on yourself, you will know who and what attributes you need to complement your attributes and your life.
Be open minded in your journey of attracting the right partner to complement you. Do not look at other relationships to guide your choices or to emulate. Remember, we are all different beings, and our relationships should be unique to us as individuals.
Once you do the work on yourself and heal your life’s scars, you will definitely attract who you need in your life.
With a sincere hope that you heal your life’s scars and a touch of Goddess Spice. Till the next article.
Your Spice Goddess,
Aging. Menopause & Sex Life. Mental Wellbeing. Perimenopause. Women’s Empowerment.