Love, Life, and Intimacy after Menopause starts with loving yourself first, truly loving yourself, your body, and your life’s journey thus far. In order to love someone else, you need to love yourself first
Looking into Greek mythology, we realized there was a Goddess that was in charge of providing Eternal Youth to the other Gods and Goddesses in the Olympus. Her name was Hebe.
So many women are conditioned to be perfect. We want perfect marks. We want a perfect record. We want the perfect grade, assessment and appraisal. We believe that being perfect and doing things perfectly is both desirable and possible.
What would happen, if we did not judge ourselves? If we accepted life as it flows, and trusted the process? Would we be more happy? More healthy? More alive?
When I was 35 or so, a friend introduced an idea to me. Recently she had noticed that her turning 40 meant that men stopped looking at her and that people in general no longer paid much attention to her. I thought this was a wild generalization and it wouldn’t or couldn’t happen to me.